A. Understanding Free Intercourse
We certainly know that promiscuity is one form of deviant behavior, which is "free" in question is beyond the limits of existing norms oriental. Promiscuity is a problem we often hear from both within and from the mass media.
Teenagers are vulnerable emotionally unstable individuals is not controlled by the right of self-control. Family problems, disappointments, knowledge is minimal, and call friends who mingle freely make more reduction in the potential of Indonesia's young generation in the progress of the nation.
B. The rise of Intercourse Causes & Impact of Free Teens Indonesia
a. There are many reasons do teenage promiscuity. The cause of each adolescent may be different but they all stem from a lack of grip that is the main cause of teenage life in terms of belief / religion and adolescent emotional instability. This causes uncontrolled behavior, such as promiscuity and drug use that lead to diseases such as HIV & AIDS or death. Here are among the causes of the rampant promiscuity in Indonesia:
- Mental attitude is not healthy
Unhealthy mental attitude makes many teens feel proud of the association which is actually an association that is not deserved, but they do not understand because of its understanding of the weak. Where emotional instability triggered by emotional abuse such as the formation of personality that is not reasonable because the family or the actions of parents who refuse, indifferent, punish, ridicule, obtrude, and teaches a wrong without a strong faith provided the foundation for children, which later will make them feel uncomfortable with their ordinary life lived so escape from it is a negative impact, for example in the presence of free association.
- An outlet disappointment
That is when a teenager was under pressure because of his disappointment to parents who are authoritarian or too free, the school that provides sustained pressure (both in terms of achievement for adolescents who often failed or because the rules are too binding), which provides community environmental problems in socialization, so that makes adolescents so volatile in regulating emotion, and easily influenced by negative things around him, especially promiscuity due to discomfort in the environment.
- Failure to absorb the norms of adolescent
This is because the existing norms of modernization has been displaced by the truth is westernization.
b. The effects of promiscuity
Promiscuity once synonymous with the name "clubbing" (world of sparkling). That it is common knowledge that in it once rampant drug use. This is identical with the existence of free sex. Which eventually led to the HIV / AIDS. And of course after being exposed to this virus teenage life would be very lame in all aspects.
C. Solutions To Solve Problems Free Intercourse
We all know the increase in faith and devotion to God Almighty, the distribution of interests and talents in a positive way are the things that can make everyone able to achieve success later life. But although the words are often 'buzzed' that would still be a lot of teenagers who do things that are not duly performed. Other than the above solutions are still many other solutions. The solutions are as follows:
Teenagers are vulnerable emotionally unstable individuals is not controlled by the right of self-control. Family problems, disappointments, knowledge is minimal, and call friends who mingle freely make more reduction in the potential of Indonesia's young generation in the progress of the nation.
B. The rise of Intercourse Causes & Impact of Free Teens Indonesia
a. There are many reasons do teenage promiscuity. The cause of each adolescent may be different but they all stem from a lack of grip that is the main cause of teenage life in terms of belief / religion and adolescent emotional instability. This causes uncontrolled behavior, such as promiscuity and drug use that lead to diseases such as HIV & AIDS or death. Here are among the causes of the rampant promiscuity in Indonesia:
- Mental attitude is not healthy
Unhealthy mental attitude makes many teens feel proud of the association which is actually an association that is not deserved, but they do not understand because of its understanding of the weak. Where emotional instability triggered by emotional abuse such as the formation of personality that is not reasonable because the family or the actions of parents who refuse, indifferent, punish, ridicule, obtrude, and teaches a wrong without a strong faith provided the foundation for children, which later will make them feel uncomfortable with their ordinary life lived so escape from it is a negative impact, for example in the presence of free association.
- An outlet disappointment
That is when a teenager was under pressure because of his disappointment to parents who are authoritarian or too free, the school that provides sustained pressure (both in terms of achievement for adolescents who often failed or because the rules are too binding), which provides community environmental problems in socialization, so that makes adolescents so volatile in regulating emotion, and easily influenced by negative things around him, especially promiscuity due to discomfort in the environment.
- Failure to absorb the norms of adolescent
This is because the existing norms of modernization has been displaced by the truth is westernization.
b. The effects of promiscuity
Promiscuity once synonymous with the name "clubbing" (world of sparkling). That it is common knowledge that in it once rampant drug use. This is identical with the existence of free sex. Which eventually led to the HIV / AIDS. And of course after being exposed to this virus teenage life would be very lame in all aspects.
C. Solutions To Solve Problems Free Intercourse
We all know the increase in faith and devotion to God Almighty, the distribution of interests and talents in a positive way are the things that can make everyone able to achieve success later life. But although the words are often 'buzzed' that would still be a lot of teenagers who do things that are not duly performed. Other than the above solutions are still many other solutions. The solutions are as follows:
1. Improving the outlook by trying to be optimistic and living in "reality", meaning that adolescents should be educated from childhood in order not to have delusions that are inconsistent with his ability so that when teens get their disappointment will be able to respond positively.
2. Maintaining a balance lifestyle. Namely the need for teenagers to learn discipline by managing time, emotion, energy and mind with good and useful, for example, set the time in daily activities and leisure time with positive activities
3. Honest to yourself. That is basically aware of each individual wants the best for themselves respectively. So that promiscuity can be avoided. So with these teenagers do not persecute their own emotions and self.
4. Improving the way we communicate with others so that terbina good relations with the community, to provide limit themselves to activities which could negatively affect us start with good communication with people around us.
5. The need for teenagers to think for the future. Rare teens think about the future. I wish every teenager could instill the question "What would happen to me later if I was negligent in preparing the steps to become a better individual?" Then it is accompanied by positive measures for the advancement of the youth themselves. With it, the teenagers will think long to do these things away and will decrease the number of adolescents affected by HIV & AIDS in the future.
Apart from self-effort of each actual promiscuity can be reduced if the parents and community members participate actively to provide positive motivation and provide the necessary infrastructure facilities & youth in their adolescence so that everything will be beneficial in the lives of each teen.
Apart from self-effort of each actual promiscuity can be reduced if the parents and community members participate actively to provide positive motivation and provide the necessary infrastructure facilities & youth in their adolescence so that everything will be beneficial in the lives of each teen.
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